Mea culpa
Posted by cacophony in : My life , trackbackThis is an apology to all the naysayers who told me I was an idiot for falling in love so quickly a couple of months ago. You said I should exercise caution, I didn’t.
He broke my heart. Right you were.
Happy now?
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just had to do a quick check as to whether I was guilty of being a naysayer but am innocent and therefore can sincerely say
commiserations, I prescribe chocolate, bubblebaths, girly flicks, girly friends and more chocolate. Hope you feel better soon and remember he is the one who is missing out!
Aww, don’t feel bad about not exercising caution when it comes to love… some people will break your heart no matter how much you tell yourself you haven’t given it to them. There’s nothing wrong with being honest about your feelings.
Love is like the stockmarket… sure you can lose, but you never gain if you don’t invest. Realistically we can’t wait until we know absolutely everything about someone before falling for them.
It’s probably too soon to be plugging RSVP isn’t it…
Still, enjoy single life - I know you like gardening… have some “Me Time” and “I Appointments” in your garden, go shopping and go out with friends… and when the time is right, look for someone new. The world is a big, exciting place and the fact that you can get your heart broken only means you’re living life to the full rather than holding back and living in ever-wondering numbness.
:) I hope everything works out well for you.
Such is life, If I were one of those nay-sayers I would not be gloating over your broken heart right because it is known by all that it hurts like hell. However, you will be stronger and more cautious and some may say better prepared to protect YOU next time you meet someone.
bettter to have loved and lost than yadda yadda yadda
Lady C, sometimes you are wise beyond your years.
And miss cacophony………..i feel for you.
But wasn’t it a beautiful feeling for as long as it lasts, if a month, or a year, it doesn’t really take away from the joy you felt had you never met the man at all……I remember the special joy that “being in love” creates, and its uniqueness is worth the memories, if that’s all they leave.
It’s no disgrace to fall in love and find it doesn’t work out. If everyone waited for 100% certainty the human race would have died out long ago. Enjoy, learn from your mistakes and move on but never,never give up. Every pot has a lid - somewhere.
… there are many fish in the sea …
Just wondering how things are this week. Have you had a well meaning girlfriend pour you a cup of tea Or even better a cold white, Listened to your outpourings and helped you to see that your independance is to be treasured.
I was indeed a naysayer but never did I wish you a broken heart lass. We should catch up for a beer and roundly abuse the sod.